How To Create Connection In Any Conversation (LIVE)
Mar 11, 2024![](https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/blogs/11771/images/d60c17b-15f3-6c13-62bd-cccee7586_3.jpg)
Do you long for connection, but it feels impossible? In this episode, you'll learn extremely easy practices and techniques to create connection in any conversation—using your eyes, face, voice, and words.
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Use your eyes: Don't look down or off to the side.
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Use your face: Ask yourself what is your face saying.
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Use your voice: Try vocal bursts like “mm” or “ohh.”
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Use your words: See my list of "helpful phrases" below!
Helpful phrases:
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Tell me more…
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What’s it like for you...
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How does that affect you?
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That makes sense (because)...
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It sounds like / I hear you saying…
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It seems like something shifted…
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That stood out to me…
Resources mentioned (including paid links):
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Attunement: The Key To Connection, podcast by Drew Boa
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The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy, book by Deb Dana
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Man Cards: Conversation Starters For Men
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Dear Young Married Couple Card Decks